In no certain order:
Never never ever disrespect each other, above all you must respect each other the most, no shut ups, no I'm better than you, I'm right your wrong, If you wouldn't say it to your teacher, preacher or the Lord you also need not say it to the spouse, Guard your tongue.
You are a team in everything, the team don't win if the team don't play the game together, help your teammate, play the game, its all worth it in the end.
Hug and kiss every day, don't forget it, you wouldn't forget to brush your teeth, don't forget to show the spouse you care. Like I say, or Mickey Mouse says, A hug a day keeps sweethearts that way!
Tell each other compliments, often, not every day, we all need to hear them, and we don't need to hear them from opposite sexes always, sometimes more often than not, we need it from our partner. We are not too old to tell our men they are hot, Id rather him hear it from me than some other sweet lady.
Doing dishes, folding clothes may not be your job, BUT why not pick it up as your job a time or two. It will lighten the others load, make them happy and knowing you made their day will make yours.
Talk daily, I don't care about what (except other folks business of course.) Talk about dreams, plans, bills, supper, kids, goals, etc.... just talk. Ask each other questions. Questions lead to answers and talking more.
Talk lots, BUT listen MORE! Listening is super super important.
Be each others biggest supporter! Cheerleader! Fan Club! Help them fulfill their dreams.
Pray for each other, my cousin told me she prays every day as her partner leaves for work that he will shine there and be seen without even meaning to, what a great thing. Pray for each other daily.
When there is a problem say it immediately, do not hold it in. Most people are not mind readers.
Kids are not before spouse. Spouse is second to God. God, Spouse, Kids.... keep this order.
When you fill out of tune, its not a bad idea to make a list of things you'd like change and things that are going just the way you want them to be. Switch papers. Study your paper daily.
Watch the movie fireproof! I mean watch it even if you have the best marriage in the world.
If you feel a need for something more, invest in the book "The love dare" $10 at Walmart and do it completely with your spouse.
A good marriage is priceless, it is hard and never perfect but so worth the work!
Express Appreciation for things your partner does for you! A Thank you babe is always nice to hear!
I do everything I can (not being perfect of course, but always trying to be conscious) to make him happy and he does everything he can to make me happy. My goal is him, his is me! Sometimes we fail, we pick up the pieces and start again.
Never never ever disrespect each other, above all you must respect each other the most, no shut ups, no I'm better than you, I'm right your wrong, If you wouldn't say it to your teacher, preacher or the Lord you also need not say it to the spouse, Guard your tongue.
You are a team in everything, the team don't win if the team don't play the game together, help your teammate, play the game, its all worth it in the end.
Hug and kiss every day, don't forget it, you wouldn't forget to brush your teeth, don't forget to show the spouse you care. Like I say, or Mickey Mouse says, A hug a day keeps sweethearts that way!
Tell each other compliments, often, not every day, we all need to hear them, and we don't need to hear them from opposite sexes always, sometimes more often than not, we need it from our partner. We are not too old to tell our men they are hot, Id rather him hear it from me than some other sweet lady.
Doing dishes, folding clothes may not be your job, BUT why not pick it up as your job a time or two. It will lighten the others load, make them happy and knowing you made their day will make yours.
Talk daily, I don't care about what (except other folks business of course.) Talk about dreams, plans, bills, supper, kids, goals, etc.... just talk. Ask each other questions. Questions lead to answers and talking more.
Talk lots, BUT listen MORE! Listening is super super important.
Be each others biggest supporter! Cheerleader! Fan Club! Help them fulfill their dreams.
Pray for each other, my cousin told me she prays every day as her partner leaves for work that he will shine there and be seen without even meaning to, what a great thing. Pray for each other daily.
When there is a problem say it immediately, do not hold it in. Most people are not mind readers.
Kids are not before spouse. Spouse is second to God. God, Spouse, Kids.... keep this order.
When you fill out of tune, its not a bad idea to make a list of things you'd like change and things that are going just the way you want them to be. Switch papers. Study your paper daily.
Watch the movie fireproof! I mean watch it even if you have the best marriage in the world.
If you feel a need for something more, invest in the book "The love dare" $10 at Walmart and do it completely with your spouse.
A good marriage is priceless, it is hard and never perfect but so worth the work!
Express Appreciation for things your partner does for you! A Thank you babe is always nice to hear!
I do everything I can (not being perfect of course, but always trying to be conscious) to make him happy and he does everything he can to make me happy. My goal is him, his is me! Sometimes we fail, we pick up the pieces and start again.
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